INTRODUCTION
TO GUIDANCE AND COUNSELLING
what is counselling?
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Counselling is not new in Tanzania. Is
part of our typical lives
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In most communities, people help others
with their problems.
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Somehow we seek help to other (more
experienced, knowledgeable) people to find ways of dealing with stressing
problems.
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Examples, in making critical life
choices
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While it is true that counselling has
been part of our daily life, the practice is questionable
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We need to know why we need it and the
best way to do it
Definition of Guidance
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The terms guidance and counseling have
been loosely or interchangeably used
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The two terms are, however, are two
sides of the same coin (related but different)
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Effective counsellors, need to
understand the clear difference between the two so that they are able to
identify exactly the nature of the services
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Guidance is a broad in scope and is educational
and proactive in nature (information based)
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Refer
to activities (services) that aim at assisting students to make and carry out
adequate plans and to achieve satisfactory adjustment in life.
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Is a process, developmental in nature,
by which an individual is assisted to understand, accept and utilize their
abilities, aptitudes and interests and attitudinal patterns in relation to
their aspirations.
Guidance as Services
1. Educational/vocational: academic
engagement
2. Personal:
Identify the potentials/abilities in relation to future risks
3. Social guidance: addresses
more people at the same time
Goal of Guidance
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Help an individual identify who they
real are (strength, weakness etc) and are able to develop/grow their
potentialities.
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Make clients predetermine the coming
challenge in the future.
Meaning or Counselling
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Usually viewed as one part of guidance
services
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Defines as a professional relationship
between a trained counsellor and a person seeking help –also known as a client
–to solve their problem.
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Counselling builds on facilitative
relationship which assists the client to gain a wider view of their problem so
that they are able to better analyze their problem so that they arrive at best
decisions possible.
Counselling relationship?
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Empathetic understanding (getting into
client’s concerns, thoughts and feelings)
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Genuineness and sincerity (being ourselves without pretending)
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Unconditional acceptance (no judgement, valuing
the other person)
Goals of Counselling
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Counselling is basically a reaction to
the existing problem.
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The focus is on the solution of the life
challenge facing the client (the understanding of the core problem)
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Core problem is usually unknown unless
the client comes for counselling
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The ultimate goal of counselling is to
help the client deal with emotional and behavioural problems which may have
been interfering with their well being.
Engaging Activity
If the
client usually doesn’t know the core problem, why do they come to counselling?
Not every
relationship can be useful in facilitating counseling process. Elaborate this
statement with specific examples.
TASK
Compare
and contrast guidance and Counselling
- What
they do (nature of operation)
- How
they do it (strategy)
- Who
benefits (Recipient)
- Scope
of services (
- What
do they try to achieve (goal)
- Who
offers the service (provider)
Think of guidance and Counselling
activities in the school context:
- At
the point of entrance (Form one and Five)
- During
the Studies (process)
- On
Completion (Form 4 and 6)
Traditional Advice Giving
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Advice giving is providing suggestions
to another person, telling them what they need to do to solve their problem
(imposed solution to someone else’s problem
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Why do we give advices to other people?
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Easy to give (we think we know the other
person). But do we?
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Some people expect advices (they think
other people know better than them)
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It is rewarding to feel we have helped
the other person (we feel important)
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But imagine you have given an advice
which didn’t work…or the advice is rejected!
In Counseling we DON’T GIVE ADVICES!
Reasons:
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We know very little about the client’s
problem.
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We don’t want to be responsible for the consequence
of our advices
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It is embarrassing to offer an advice
which is not used.
INSTEAD:
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We helps people face their own problems,
examine their options, understand their feelings and choose alternatives that
seem best to them.
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We ONLY give advices when we are 100%
certain that it will work
Psychotherapy?
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The terms ‘counselling’ and
‘psychotherapy’ are often used interchangeably, but there is a slight
distinction
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Counselling works with present emotional
and behavioural problems whereas psychotherapy intensively and extensively
examines a person’s psychological history.
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Counselling is concerned with practical
or immediate issues and outcomes while psychotherapy is long term process that
looks at long standing attitudes, thoughts and behaviour
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Psychotherapist: have medical background
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But no clear line between counseling and
psychotherapy
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